Parent and Carer Guidance

​Parent and Guardian Guidance


Everyone involved in football should promote the highest-possible standards of behaviour, so we can pass our great game on in good shape to future generations.

This applies as much to parents/guardians as anyone else. No doubt we’ve all heard - and perhaps seen - parents behaving badly at children’s matches. Sometimes unwittingly, they can create a climate of intimidation that stops children wanting to play.

To further extend your knowledge of safeguarding, please take the free FA Parents & Carers Safeguarding Course. The 30-minute course aims to create greater awareness of the safeguarding role parents and carers can play within football. Find out more and take the course by clicking below:

FA Parents & Carers Safeguarding Course

Ensuring parents/guardians behave appropriately at youth team matches is codified into ‘Respect’, an ongoing FA drive to improve everyone’s standards of behaviour. In fact, there’s a code of conduct for parents/guardians which you will be asked to sign up to if you have a child playing for a youth team. Please find a link to the Respect Programme below:


Equally, apart from parents/guardians behaving responsibly themselves, you may also witness inappropriate or threatening behaviour from a fellow adult towards a child or young person. It can be difficult to confront this, so football has set up various confidential ways you can report your concerns.

Watch the video below to find out more how to safeguard children in football:


In addition, as well all know, today’s younger generation are actively engaged in the digital world. This could be by visiting websites, engaging in social media, or receiving texts and/or emails. As a parent/guardian you should be aware of how your child(ren) are being contacted by their club via digital media - and the general guidance that surrounds young people’s use of social networking sites.

Ultimately, we want to make the game as safe and enjoyable as possible for everyone - and that’s where we can all play a part.

To read more about keeping children safe in sport, head to the CPSU website.

CPSU website

Speaking out in sport

This short animation from the NSPCC Child Protection in Sport Unit (CPSU) can help parents understand their role in safeguarding children in sport and the kind of support available to parents if they need to speak out about any worries they might have.

Offering coaches with on-the-ground support in Surrey

Continuing for a second season, the Surrey Mentor programme is designed to support coaches qualified at Level 1/Introduction to Coaching Football and Level 2/UEFA C Licence from underrepresented backgrounds in Surrey, providing you with bespoke mentoring support from a dedicated FA Coach Mentor taking place in and around the club where you coach.

In addition, there will be plenty of opportunities for 1-2-1 support and group-based delivery, giving you the chance to connect with other coaches across Surrey and developing your technical knowledge all-in-one!